Apparently this is what relaxed looks like. Mike told me he liked this person that had some time in the sun and was actually talking and laughing. I can be fun, when I don't have a ton of laundry and I am not always rushing from point A to B.
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Poor Abby, we're in Gulf Shores and she is still sick at Mom's. It's sad when you're still up all night with your child, and your child is five hours away.
Thanks to Mimi for taking the girls so I can tag along with Mike to Gulf Shores for couple of days. We are all in need of a break.
Sick kids bring summer to a grinding halt. We have so much fun during the day and then out of the blue you have a crying child that keeps you occupied all night long. I am very thankful that the girls have been healthier this year, and I cannot wait for them to outgrow the ear infections, but, one day at a time. Now,
I have to take a moment and just truly brag on my children. Today was one of those days that I was 100% sure would end in one of my children having a complete meltdown, and it didn't.
I have been doing my best to remember that I am raising children, and that I can't spend all day folding laundry, sweeping the floor, and so on and so forth. So in the spirit of giving my children my undivided attention, I have been attempting to make sure that I call attention to when they are doing something well. Yes, I know it's cheating. As the Behavior Interventionist, it is one of my big things in BIPs, praise children often and praise children the minute that they start complying. Now here is the complicated part, I have a no yelling policy at school. I am of the philosophy that all yelling does is makes me loose my voice and for a classroom to get louder. I am a firm believer in positive peer pressure and using positive peer pressure to get the class to do what I want them to do. See Behavior 101 for some more insight into this philosophy. Anyway, I don't yell at school, I don't raise my voice, but it's not uncommon to hear, "Abby, Abby, Abby" as I grab my child from the road, or "ZOEY" after I find that she is still glued to whatever she was doing and not even close to doing or being where she was asked. Poor Happy even gets the brunt of the "ARE YOU KIDDING MEs" when I have discovered that he has used the door mat as a bathroom. So for the last few weeks I have been going above and beyond what I would do in the classroom to maintain my composure. In the classroom I praise and compliment to keep my expression from changing. I drop my pencil, or notebook so I can take ten seconds to let out the breath I may have been holding so that they see nothing but calm, so I brought it home. I have been praising the compliant child and reminding them how much I love them. I think it is really working, Zoey volunteered to help clean up the sticks in the yard yesterday to get the pool filled up faster, and today, which could have been a disaster turned out amazing. We had a busy day starting at 8:00 getting ready for the annual choir concert at First Presbyterian Church here in Alexander City. The girls were champs and played hard and we left to come home and eat lunch. From there it was off to a birthday party where Zoey was compliant and attempted some karaoke. At 3:30 we were running to get dressed and the girls were going as hard as they could so we could be back at the church at 4:00, and the girls were amazing, when I got them from the nursery at 6:30 they were still going strong, but doing everything they could to hear Mommy say what she liked about what they were doing. We finished the evening at dinner where I sat and chewed on my straw waiting for the break down. When I wouldn't let Zoey have a tea I thought we had finally hit the money, but thankfully, she rolled with the punches and was glad to have the reward of having my to go cup for being so good. Now, with the promise of a surprise tomorrow the girls went straight to bed with little fuss, and stayed there. When I am on my game, this is how fourteen weeks of Fridays went. Since I haven't been 100% since school let out, I was amazed at how quick their behavior, and my sanity corrected itself. I was ecstatic to put to bed two very tired, very happy little girls tonight. I feel like my head has been spinning since school let out. I worked until June 1. Mike worked Sounds of Summer Music Camp in Opelika until June 1st. Zoey's dance recital was June 6th, and we've just been going and going and going ever since. Mike and I were lucky to be able to runaway for the evening on June 14, to celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary. We had a great night out and spent a moment walking down memory lane at Samford. Since then we have just been trying to keep the kids busy and keep ourselves busy. I told a friend the other night I have about modge podged everything we own, so now it is just smooth sailing from here. As my closet friends no, I am not one that can sit idle very long, I mean why else would I have a multiple faceted web page? I feel that letting my mind rest is useful, but I had to be idle. I guess because at the end of the day I want to be tired and feel like I have accomplished something. As many of my friends also know, I have said many times over that I am a contestant for the worst mother of the year award. I feel like I have failed my children in some way or another on a daily basis and that is why I think it's important to call attention to the fact that my children are what keep me sane. My amazing husband also helps keep everything a float as well. He is also one that occasionally will bite off more than he can chew, but we seem to meet in the middle often. I'm just sad that June is coming to a close and what little time Mike has home with us is almost up, but we've had a good time |
Kelli MuncherI'm a mother, counselor, and a wife. On many days I feel that my head is spinning, but I'm lucky that my family keeps me centered on a daily basis. Archives
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